He cheated on you, he dumped you, blah blah, then what? Show me a grin honey; it’s happened to almost everyone. Whether it’s been a cute summer fling or half a decade romance saga, there’s always that relationship hang over you need to outlast in order to carry on with your life.
Ssshhhh… I know… it’s such a barrel of pain. Losing someone you thought would be what most people call “the one” feels like falling into a black hole where there’s no way out. It even hurts a lot more when you invested and expected too much from your relationship that would just suddenly end up in a burst of a bubble. Take it from someone who’s sworn to abstain from dating forever—well, okay, for at least the next few months, because of the insensitivity and self-centeredness of almost the entire male race. I have my reasons, just to clarify.
It really is so ironic when you feel out of the loops and get into the constant questioning of “Why? Why? Why?” but still force your brain to infect itself with the so-called ‘how-we-ended-amnesia.’ Then, when seeking the gal’s gospel advices, you continuously utter the “I-don’t-want-to-be-his-friend-cliché’ but still get the urge to call him late at night to just hear a few seconds of that graceful baritone. You go delete his number from your contacts list; but oh please, you’ve memorized it way better than the country’s national anthem. For months you always find yourself staying late in bed, nibbling that chocolate bar you didn’t know contained 150-300 calories, because you keep skipping your meals just like how heartbroken teenage girls do in television soaps.
(What? Did I just hit you?)
There are billions of stories from billions of girls but everyone agrees that sure it’s hard to do, but it’s definitely not impossible to overcome; and it all begins with believing you can hog the limelight once more and enjoy for the second time around.
Truly, getting out of a relationship is indeed very wearisome that’s why you always need to give yourself time, not to wallow in self-pity but to cry and emancipate all the angst; but then, bear in mind that you must also learn when to say “Enough!” Depression can indeed be very debilitating if you allow it to consume you.
Getting out of the pit is easier said than done. For now, everything seems hopeless and helpless that nothing anyone says or does could help fit the tattered pieces perfectly, or so as it seems. Let the past stay there—what was can never be or will be. Just learn to accept present realities and don’t hang on to maybe’s and what if’s. Remember, where you are is where God wants you to be. There is still that long and fabulous runway to strut, and listen, guys are never the antidotes who we couldn’t live without! You don’t belong to anyone else but yourself. There are more things to relish rather than mulling over the jerk who never even deserved you in the first place. Go get that makeover and shopping spree, then show the world your whole new repaired persona. Realize that the prize to be won is you and from this very moment, don’t you dare allow anyone to ever again let you think less of who you actually are.
You are loved, beautiful. ;-)
XOXO,
♥Andi Dandi♥
Ssshhhh… I know… it’s such a barrel of pain. Losing someone you thought would be what most people call “the one” feels like falling into a black hole where there’s no way out. It even hurts a lot more when you invested and expected too much from your relationship that would just suddenly end up in a burst of a bubble. Take it from someone who’s sworn to abstain from dating forever—well, okay, for at least the next few months, because of the insensitivity and self-centeredness of almost the entire male race. I have my reasons, just to clarify.
It really is so ironic when you feel out of the loops and get into the constant questioning of “Why? Why? Why?” but still force your brain to infect itself with the so-called ‘how-we-ended-amnesia.’ Then, when seeking the gal’s gospel advices, you continuously utter the “I-don’t-want-to-be-his-friend-cliché’ but still get the urge to call him late at night to just hear a few seconds of that graceful baritone. You go delete his number from your contacts list; but oh please, you’ve memorized it way better than the country’s national anthem. For months you always find yourself staying late in bed, nibbling that chocolate bar you didn’t know contained 150-300 calories, because you keep skipping your meals just like how heartbroken teenage girls do in television soaps.
(What? Did I just hit you?)
There are billions of stories from billions of girls but everyone agrees that sure it’s hard to do, but it’s definitely not impossible to overcome; and it all begins with believing you can hog the limelight once more and enjoy for the second time around.
Truly, getting out of a relationship is indeed very wearisome that’s why you always need to give yourself time, not to wallow in self-pity but to cry and emancipate all the angst; but then, bear in mind that you must also learn when to say “Enough!” Depression can indeed be very debilitating if you allow it to consume you.
Getting out of the pit is easier said than done. For now, everything seems hopeless and helpless that nothing anyone says or does could help fit the tattered pieces perfectly, or so as it seems. Let the past stay there—what was can never be or will be. Just learn to accept present realities and don’t hang on to maybe’s and what if’s. Remember, where you are is where God wants you to be. There is still that long and fabulous runway to strut, and listen, guys are never the antidotes who we couldn’t live without! You don’t belong to anyone else but yourself. There are more things to relish rather than mulling over the jerk who never even deserved you in the first place. Go get that makeover and shopping spree, then show the world your whole new repaired persona. Realize that the prize to be won is you and from this very moment, don’t you dare allow anyone to ever again let you think less of who you actually are.
You are loved, beautiful. ;-)
XOXO,
♥Andi Dandi♥
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